Hi Woody... centering it shouldn't be difficult, if #dropMenuWrapper has margin:0 auto and text-align:center, the menu will be centered.
If you follow my instructions for giving each item a percentage (just search this thread for percentage), then it can still resize and not wrap. But I can understand wanting to stop the resizing when you're not using it in a site that also resizes like apple zen when the font size changes. Was that a run on sentence, lol? But remember, people will still be able to change their font size no matter what. But to stop the resizing of the menu, change all em's to px's.
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